Such an important book, by someone who really understands the issues that young people face in today's world.'Dr Zoe WilliamsbrbrParents, teachers, carers ' whatever our role in a child's life, we all want th to thrive.brbrThere are many moments of joy in our relationships with our children: but what about those times we're faced with defiance, disruption and seingly endless cycles of negativity? Miserable for the child and exhausting for those around th ' and almost all completely avoidable. From everyday frustrations to more extre manifestations, these behaviours may present differently but they are all rooted in one common thread: a need for otional safety. When a child feels secure and truly heard, their behaviour is transformed.brbrMarie Gentles draws on her decades of expertise supporting children across the behavioural spectrum, along with their parents and teachers, to show us how to establish positive relationships that bring out the best in our children. Using evidence-based research, case studies and her proven methodologies, this book shows you how to:pul liEstablish connection, in order to give the otional security every child needs to flourishli liTake a step back to better understand the feelings behind the behaviourli librace even the most 'negative' of otionsli liActively listen to the child and in turn, be heardli liSee setbacks as positive learning and teaching toolsliulbrWith practical examples of how to prevent struggles before they erge as well as detailed advice on resetting when you're fire-fighting one explosion after the next, this reassuring guide powers parents and educators alike. Learn to equip children of all ages to deal with anything life throws at th, building their otional security in the process ' whether they are fifteen months or fifteen years, it's never too late to start.p